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How to Stop Thinking
A college golf coach asked
me to write a tip to help his players stop thinking about the outcome
when faced with a slightly downhill four-foot putt. Thinking about
the outcome causes his players to look up too soon or not follow
through on their putting stroke and miss the putt. He felt his players
might listen if this advice came from a mental trainer instead of
their coach.
The best way to stop
thinking about the outcome is to stop thinking period. Without any
thoughts you are free to play without any negative emotions to cloud
your gut feelings and instincts.
You can write a very
philosophical book about why and how to stop thinking. To keep this
brief, let's get to the essence of the issue. Our minds love to
think. Our egos identify with our thoughts. We believe our thoughts
give us control over the outside world.
However, Zen masters
and enlightened individuals know that non-thought allows them to
be one with the universe and function at a very high level. Golfers
who have been fortunate to play in the zone know from experience
that thinking immediately takes them out of the zone.
You can not think your
mind into stop thinking because in the process you give your mind
more food for thought. The only alternative is to just stop thinking,
which to the unaware goes against their world view.
You can minimize your
thoughts by focusing solely on your breathing or seeing the ball
being hit. Through meditation you can train your mind to stop thinking,
but it is very hard to play golf with your eyes closed. What works extremely well for me is to take several slow deep breaths, focus solely on seeing the ball being hit and just stop thinking.
The way I trained my
mind to stop thinking was by having a very thorough understanding
of how my tape operates and using the Daily Affirmation in "The Mental
Keys" to control it. During the process of doing my best to always
tell the truth and eliminate all negative emotions, I was forced
to stop thinking and witness my thoughts and actions.
After many years of using
the Daily Affirmation to train my mind to select only the emotions
that I chose to go on my tape, I found that I could literally stop
thinking at will if I wanted to. Instead of being angry or having fear,
I can now just stop thinking and be totally in the present.
It takes time and effort
to train your mind to stop thinking, but it can be done. By making
the Daily Affirmation a priority in your life, you will learn how
to stop thinking and optimize your chemistry which will allow you
to play at your highest level and in the zone.
If
you have not read "The Mental Keys To Improve Your Golf", you will
benefit greatly from my book by seeing the whole picture instead
of just pieces contained in my mental tips.
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