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Focus
on Success
To those of you who have
read "The Mental Keys to Improve Your Golf " and my many mental tips, you are
well aware that associating negative emotions to facts adversely
affects your chemistry and performance. So what do you focus on
when faced with facts that challenge your ability to pull off difficult
shots?
Let's assume you make
a bad tee shot and your ball landing in the rough is completely
covered by the grass. Or, your ball buries itself in a sand bunker
with the top barely showing, or any other worse case scenario that
Old Man golf will occasionally confront you with.
When this happens to
you, what runs through your mind? Do you get upset or complain that
you got a bad break and face a very difficult shot? If you do, train
your mind to focus on success. Start playing each shot with your
focus on your probability of success, instead of failure.
By this I mean, once
you estimate your chances of making a shot, focus totally on making
the shot. Don't concern yourself with the probability of not making
the shot. Even if the odds are only 1% that you can make a very
difficult shot, be happy and excited that you have a 1% chance of
making that shot.
Expect to be able to
make the shot, if everything goes right. This will put you in a
very good frame of mind and chemical state. You will find that you
will make more shots if you believe you can. If you end up missing
the shot, so what because the odds were against you anyway.
This holds true for
a shot that you should make 90% of the time. Focus solely on making
the shot and don't concern yourself with the 10% chance of missing.
If you end up missing the shot, so what because you will make it
90% of the other times.
Learn to love the challenge
that each shot brings. Expect success, but allow yourself the freedom
to fail as just part of the game. If you focus on your target expecting
success, you will have more fun and lower scores.
If
you have not read "The Mental Keys To Improve Your Golf", you will
benefit greatly from my book by seeing the whole picture instead
of just pieces contained in my mental tips.
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