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Thinkin
Is Stinkin - Part Two
This tip is a continuation
of my mental tip "Thinkin Is Stinkin." This will be a discussion of why thinking interferes
with your golf and what you can do about it to improve your game.
Some golfers with high
handicaps are actually mechanically better than their scores reflect.
Upon reading "The Mental Keys to Improve Your Golf" they happily find themselves dropping
8 to 10 strokes. That is because they are able to quickly become
process oriented and let the results take care of themselves. They
simply stopped thinking or worrying about making a bad shot.
By freeing their thoughts
of negative emotions there is a positive shift in the brain's chemistry,
which allows their body and mind to function at its optimum. Hence,
without improving their mechanics they see an immediate improvement
in their game.
Some golfers who once
had low handicaps find themselves plagued with the yips. The yips
are normally related to putting, but they can be applied to other
parts of your game as well. One golfer told me he played great as
long as he was 30 yards away from the hole. Once he came close to
the hole, his palms would sweat and his game would fall apart. This
definitely is a case of "thinkin is stinkin."
Recently, another golfer
called and said he had problems with shanking the ball. It was costing
him one to two strokes a hole. He use to shoot in the 70's and now
he was in the 100's. He knew his problem was mental because he rarely
shanked the ball on the driving range. He was beside himself and
wanted my help.
I told him that I could
help, but not to look for a quick fix because he has to retrain
his tape not to think about the outcome which is the cause of his
problem. Normally, it takes 30 days to reprogram the tape to develop
a new habit.
Since his game was mechanically
sound in practice, his problem was definitely "thinkin is stinkin."
The game plan that I laid out for him was to accept the fact that he now
shot in the 100's and relax. His memory of shooting in the 70's
was getting in his way. He had to accept that mentally he was an
unconscious incompetent and use that as a starting point.
Then, I advised him
to become conscious of the fact that in practice his mind was relaxed.
Also, to notice what he focused on when he played. He said he was
focused on being afraid of shanking or being upset because he just
shanked his last shot. Now, he was conscious that his outcome-oriented
focus was causing his problem.
Next, I instructed him
to focus on an acceptable progression, instead of trying to eliminate
shanking over night. For example, if he shanked the ball 28 times
during a round of golf, work on gradually reducing the number of
times he shanked the ball. This would give him permission to fail
and allow him to start focusing on the process instead of the results.
By becoming process-oriented,
he would naturally become more relaxed and there would be a corresponding
shift in his brain chemistry, which would reduce the number of times
he shanked the ball. With this new mind-set he will be happy once
he only shanks 20 times during a round, instead of being depressed.
If he stays focused
on the process, he will gradually find himself shanking only once
in awhile during a round of golf and be back to shooting in the
70's. I told him to be realistic about his mechanical abilities
because even Tiger Woods shanks the ball every so often. The key
is to stay in the process and let the results take care of themselves
according to your mechanical proficiency.
This is the tricky part
because it's a catch 22. If you want the outcome, you can't have
it because it will bring you back into thinking about the results.
If you don't care about the outcome, you can have it because you
mind is free to perform without fear of failure. In summary, if
you don't think about the outcome, your game won't stink.
If
you have not read "The Mental Keys To Improve Your Golf", you will
benefit greatly from my book by seeing the whole picture instead
of just pieces contained in my mental tips.
I guarantee it! So
order now and lower your score.
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